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ManAmo 2016-03-06 09:00:09

 

Hi All , 
I am from hyderabad,  a single father .. I request to all Single parents be it mother or father that can we join together and form a group that can be beneficial to us and our kids. I know we all face a lot of problems in our day to day life and many a times need a friend to share our moments. so if any of you feel the same way then please make it success by creating and joining a singleparents group where we all are caring.


25Mannie 2016-09-06 01:29:50

 

I am single mother for 2 year old boy from Hyderabad and wish to join such group if created
 

HappilySingle 2016-09-06 07:56:58

 

Hi .. I am single.mother for 6 yrs boy ...
 

shiva9318 2016-09-30 16:44:18

 

Hi
i m single father 
can I friendship with u
please contact
shivaprasad.kanakapu@gmail.com
 

shiva9318 2016-09-30 16:46:13

 

Hi
can I do friendship with u
please contact 9100234462
 

Ischa 2017-06-12 12:17:38

 

I am a fresh single mother now. My son is now 6 months old. I dont live in Hyderabad but i would be glad being in contact with you
 

25Mannie 2017-06-12 14:39:12

 

Hi Ischa,

hope you are doing good. Feel free to contact me. I am looking for friendship with single mothers.
 

Ischa 2017-06-12 17:35:29

 

Hi Mannie :) thanks for youre reply! How old is youre kid?
 

ManAmo 2017-06-12 23:02:08

 

Hi All, 
Welcome to Hyderabad Single parents group. I created this group basically to ease down the difficulties we face. This idea strikes to me by the idea that prevails in USA where people form the community groups and enjoy happily by overcoming the odds of life.

Being Single Parent , not only we but also our kids get some vacuum and though no one can fill it but a healthy friendly environment can help in fun filled upbringing of our kids. 

As an example like when i go out with my son though he enjoys a lot but i feel that it can be more fun if he can have some more people around him to share his happiness. We all can also meet as an get together to have a good time and also try to help each other may be by advising , by counselling or by any means that we can do for each other. 

Also it is not necessary that all are from Hyderabad , we can be distant apart also , as i believe we can contribute to each others happiness by any means where distance is not a matter.

In case you members have same positive thinking then please feel free to contact @ 9703576000 ( my WatsApp number)

ManAmo.    
9703576000.

 
 

25Mannie 2017-06-13 10:15:21

 

Thank you ManAmo. Ofcourse we can gather if everyone likes
 

ManAmo 2017-06-13 11:07:50

 

Thanks 25Mannie..I think we can start by communication threads on this itself and can tell each of us about ourself or we can also create a watsapp group if it seems to be too public to share about ourselves.. We can also fix a time during evening where we can come online and have communication , ideas are plenty but good if we can get them workable... any constructive idea are welcome by any member , let's use this gift of technologies to share , express and have a lovely life.

"Where the path ends their lies new opportunities to explore and lay new paths" Or " Adversities are blessing in disguise to explore new possibilities"

Stay Happy!!Live Life!! 

ManAmo.    
9703576000


 

Ischa 2017-06-13 12:18:47

 

Im in ! That is a great idea!
 

ManAmo 2017-06-13 17:44:48

 

Thanks Ischa for supporting the idea.

So All ,  how we should start. WatsApp ?? You all can ping me on 9703576000 , i will create the group. I hope our this initiative can help us out in overcoming challenges of life.

Stay Happy!!Live Life!! 

ManAmo.    
9703576000
 

ManAmo 2017-06-13 18:37:50

 

To get the ball rolling let me introduce myself.

I am Manan , my son is of age 6. I am taking care of my son alone from last 2 years . My wife was Dermatologist , she died of Inflammatory breasts cancer 2 years back.

So far life is a beautiful challenge every day. Many ups and downs. Good part is all of them get sailed and i hope in future it will be same.First six months for me really challenging as i was all new to role of single father where i have to be mother and father both. However my experience taught me that best we can raise the current generation by being friend to our kids. 

My son has complete liberty on me on how should i dress , how should i style my hair or beard and I am very happy with this as he can easily communicate all his feelings to me freely. Initially, i faced issues on question by him of where is mummy , however for this i created story that she lives in moon and getting treated. For initial 1 year , it is like my right half is father and left half mother , so per him he calls his mother and i pretend that she come to my left half and i need to pretend like i am his mother, he talks to me considering that he is talking to his mother, he just to get me scolded say something to my wife ( which is me) and then ask me to scold papa , so i have to enact in scolding words as if his mother scolding his father and he used to laugh and then say his mother goodbye and get well soon. This carried for 1 year and slowly he understand the reality but this 1 year created the bond of trust and friendship between him and me.

As child grows up, everyday we have to face a new challenge , sometimes we are helpless but what i learnt is their is always a way to handle and we just need to explore, i am not saying it is easy but if we believe that life is beautiful then we can to a great extent manage challenges.

I work as Analyst in Globally Reputed Investment Bank , so another question comes in how to balance work and life with dual responsibility. How to get a true emotional support when we are upset , either because of guilt feel that we could have done better for our kid if we were not single.Though we all have families but sometimes they can not understand what we feel , how we feel as the situations are not same of others and us , like this many and many scenario based questions comes to our mind. With my experience i learnt that no matter what the situation is we should be positive( though hard) and should not let our anxiety to be felt to our kids, believe me they are very sensitive ( like my son whenever i have headache he immediately comes and ask what happen papa, are you OK and i have to give smile to him so that he can be OK and play) . 

We should feel our self as exceptional and so we should create the habit of being exceptionally positive as our positive attitude can bring happiness to us and our kids. Also try to interact with people and make good friends as this will not make you feel alone. Life is not for wasting in dark-box of sadness. So what we are single , being single is also good. 

That's why i believe in  

"Where the path ends their lies new opportunities to explore and lay new paths" Or " Adversities are blessing in disguise to explore new possibilities" 

Stay Happy!!Live Life!! 

ManAmo.    
9703576000
 

Ischa 2017-06-13 22:31:40

 

Hi ManAmo what are Theo first digits for Hyderabad. Since we live in Germany i forgot them :D
 

ManAmo 2017-06-13 23:53:12

 

Hi Ischa, 

This is mobile number so you save it as +919703576000. +91 is India Country code. Same will work for WatsApp or calling.

Stay Happy!!Live Life!! 

ManAmo.    
+919703576000

 

mahya 2017-06-24 00:11:41

 

hi ischa....we have a group of single parents if you are interested to join then let me know...what do you do? hows life is going on
hr.paperfly@gmail.com
 

22manu 2017-07-16 15:09:55

 

Hey guys I am single mom with 2 and half year old son living in Hyderabad
 

 

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