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Jesslyn 2019-03-15 21:13:52


Hi Everyone,


My First Marriage couldn't survive as he was a drunker and having affair already which I came to know post marriage. We have separated with mutual consent. I was at my maternal home after 8 months of the marriage. Also in between as well I was at my home for about 3 to 4 months. So I hardly stayed at his home after marriage. This was an arranged marriage.

I found a dentist on We communicated and discussed lot of things before marriage.. He was the soul person in the world who could understand me and my situation and I started trusting him. Our wave length matched and started falling for each other over a period of 7 months. He also dealt with a fraud case in marriage and his marriage was only for a day. He made lots of promises not to hurt me or never having any disrespectful behaviour for life before marriage. He was very caring before marriage.


My parents were not agreed for inter caste marriage. However Her mother forced me and made me so convinced to come at her home and she will take care of everything even if my parents don't agree. I trusted this family and married with him in presence of his relatives in Arya Samaj and later on we registered our marriage in the court.


After Marriage; my MIL was an all together a different person and started ill treating me at all the festivals and demands some or other things from me as I am working and says, no items comes from my home. She tortures me by not having food or  in any other emotional way. In starting my husband supported me. she in turn started emotionally with his son and ask him always to leave me and get married to a villager. In stead of making his son's home she tries to break it. She speaks very bad words and do gali galoch to me. Now a days my husband is also speaking in her language and says that i want to leave you. He is threatening me everyday since 2 months that papers are getting ready and once the papers are ready he will file a divorce. Also he now says that this is illegal marriage and I am not his legal wife. He also become violent in the argument. Also, He took all of my savings and forced me to take loans and I am paying EMIs for that.. I am feeling emotionally financially and mentally tourchered by him and his family.    What is the way out in this case. If I will tell him that I will complaint against you; he says do it.. I will go to jail.. Bt remember I will not live with you. Her mother always threaten me that she will throw me out of her house.  I am in a deep shit. Do I have any rights against this situation, I dont want divorce. I just want to live peacefully with my husband in a separate home. I can't tolerate my MIL and its beyond limit. my In Laws are having political background and strong connections with politicians.

What should I Do/.? What are my rights? I am confused should i file a case or just stay quite and tolerant of all these things

arvd 2019-03-16 18:10:57


I am Ravinder M.Aastrology from Hyderabad.If you have DOB,TOB,POB I will predict mail me

1vihann 2019-03-26 14:45:30


y cant u take ur husband for counselling

davidraj73 2019-04-10 13:28:03


Don't discuss your problem here. You could be wrongly guided. Meet a counsellor or talk to your family members who would be of great help 

Jesslyn 2019-06-06 23:17:58


hello Sir,

Thank you so much for your help :) 

Jesslyn 2019-06-07 15:36:40


Hello Ravinder Sir,

Thanks for your help and prediction. 


param27 2019-06-14 10:45:32


hope life in on track now.

param27 2020-07-03 09:21:44


Jassylyn....Hope everything settled down...


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