Not choosing to single parent

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rainbow5 2018-09-17 00:39:15


hi all,

I am a 30 year old woman with a 2 year old baby girl. I am going through divorce and separation. Though I am working independent I can€™t imagine I can give that feeling and security a father can give.

I need all of your honest advice suggestions on this. I am willing to give my daughter to husband because I think it€™s very difficult to raise a baby that too a girl without father being around.

As I myself raised by my mom as my father passed away when I was just 12 years old. Until now I miss my father and I feel lack of confidence. So I don€™t want to face it when my daughter feels bad seeing other babies growing with their father.

Though I am giving her to husband I€™ll be there for her whenever she needs me. 

Sometimes i feel it€™s very selfish idea to leave baby to husband. I am in crossroads please give your suggestions.

BhupendraB 2018-09-20 22:48:40


First off, I'm not a father yet so you're free to ignore any of my words. I think you already know the answer to your situation. Yes, you're right when you said that it's very difficult to raise a baby alone without a father. And it couldn't be more true in Indian society. I'm not saying a single mother can't provide a child with all the care and love both a father and mother can. Yet many children long for a loving and caring father or at least some father figure in their life. As you said from your own experience that you still miss your father and feel a lack of confidence. And no you are not being selfish by leaving your baby with your husband. If you think about it some would even argue that keeping the baby with yourself is selfish. I hope you won't get swayed by the opinions of people in your life, change your mind and devoid your baby girl the love and presence of her father.

9677264248 2018-09-21 14:48:09



Good noon

welcome to the site for suggestions

i accept all u r views with regard to the future of u r child that too a female child

u r divorced legally and why not u get married to a gentle men again as second tie since u r child is only 2 yrs

right time now and she will accept the second as her father

right age and right time for both is it not.?

there r lot of gentlemen like u  but select carefully bocz nothing is free in this world and nothing is guaranteed

its u to decide selecting a gentlemen so that both are secured.leaving child to u r x is dangerous he may get married and the child will not be taken care by them

pls take care choose the right choice and consult u r dearest and decide

i dont know u r real name but dear u r blessed

thank u

Ramanan in 9677264248 and in Google


rajn 2018-09-29 13:29:13



Baby need your love & caring now as she is just 2 yrs, if you leave her now she will lose the love from mother which is invaluable in this world which can't be given by anyone else. this is why Indian women & their patience is respected throughout the world.

I would like to advise you strongly to seek your Mother's advise bcos she gives you correct advise & based on life experience too.

ping me on 9700000949 if you need any other advice or mail me

Do Not Leave child for any reason.

samar9350450493 2019-05-19 01:13:08


I know it's hard but what to say that is life. It happened with me too so much just 29 and divorced for 3 years. But I am looking for friends to meet and share and discuss about life

param27 2019-06-14 10:46:49


if he is ready to care..then u hould otheriwse think twice

7clouds 2019-07-13 12:12:38


First of all, any couple with kids are not to be separated/divorced. One can do so as an individual but how can anyone separate a small kid from father and/or mother from a kid. Let the kids decide after they grown up weather or not both parents should stay together or not. 

RNK40 2019-08-08 17:16:36


Hi I am single mom to a 9 year old. Is there anybody from Bangalore who can help me with advise and tps to biy an apartment and suggest schooling for my kid. Also aby single parent group from Bangalore?

gideong 2019-08-20 11:55:34


ammend first with each other. If not, keep her with you. It's not the security that money provides that is needed, but the love of selflessness. Decide.


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