Remarriage is a big decision. Please take as pros and cons into account before getting into it. What about your daughter? at this age , she will definitely need her mother's love and attention, esp. when it is only you. Ofcourse, grandparents are there and how much ever loving, caring they are, after a certain time, kids want their parents. If you remarry, you have to be sure that your spouse accepts her. Will the child be ok sharing her mother's attention and that too with a complete stranger, atleast for her? Tomorrow, you do not want to be torn between your hubby and your daughter. Although it is very very difficult emotionally, financially and socially to lead a single mother's life and especially when you are so young, please think not once , twice but many many times. To escape from one do not jump into another world of misery. If would be hubby initially says ok and later does not accept your daughter completely or you have another child with him going forward, what happens to this child. Do not want to discourage you from this, but please think more from the child's angle , she did not choose to be in this situation. As it is the pressure on her in society for explaining not having a father would be much, do not subject her to more. and while taking decisions, do not rely on parent's presence. Consider the fact that they are also aging. All the same, if you get a life partner who is supportive from all aspects, I really pray for you, then think wisely and take a decision. Promises are made in love and for the sake of initial desires, however all that fades over a period of time and history should not repeat itself. Just an advice from a much much older sister
How are you.
what did you decide.. ?
First become stable, independent.. think about this will cool mind, emotionally do not decide anything.. its dangerous.
Still I didn't decided yet. Now concentrating on my career. If it meant to be happen it will happen at the right time like a magic . So Believe and move on is my slogan :D.
" If it meant to be happen it will happen at the right time like a magic ." Exactly.. !
I also took similar approach.. but also I try to make friends.. rather looking for so called "soul mate or partner" I feel its better to be with friends rather.. !
cause relationships come with *conditions apply and lot of expectations. !
Hello @Mahiiiiiii100 ,
People Move on.. ,
I am doing good and stable.. :)
@dreamer27 , How are you
Hi..life is like walking on a rope.be postive always and if your family insist you fro second marriage and if you are interested in it then go for it.think better you select a person and discuss about your kid future your interst your likes and dislikes.
If you remarry you might end up with more problems. I would suggest you to rethink on this part and live independently and take care of your kid.
Hi think once again to land into problem since u have kid and now the trend is the man who comes as second will care u and not the child. Think twice. and discuss with u r close friends and decide
Ram 43 from chennai
hi ,Stress is nver will be a good option just think about yourself as well as ur kid and plan in such a way that u enjoy ur life and give better future to ur kidand bout given second chance to life is good option ,hope u will find a good one who not only respect u as well cares about u
please dont take stress better to speak or share ur feeling with friends or family.if you would like to share with me its good and like to be part of ur life
This is with regard to , second marraige is also not guaranteed. Pls select a good friend and spend time with him at least an hour and share with him honestly u r problem and stress