I am married and have 2 kids, boy and girl.
staying with my inlaws also my 2 sistelawss stay together.
my Mother in law is taking care of kids.
but my sil have problems taking care of own kids.
they say they want their mom to survive for some days.
need not die very early becoz of me or kids.
firends tell me how can we bear this.
also specially to eat, they come directly take whatever is available and go.
when me and my kdis wanted we will not have it.
when i ask them they that their Father is earning,ofcourse even my husband is also earning right?
when i tell my husband he is telling that, till his mother are there this will happen.
sister in laws often come on everyday.
in absence of me and my husband my mother in law is taking care of my kids sils are taking advantage of these.
i should earn and give them money, but also get words.
My son is also telling that always atthaa scolding me.
I don't have father have only mother,
so my husband relations are taking advantage of it.
Always they say, you should adjust and go.
When SIL are not staying with their in-laws and always troubling and how come they have eligibility to trouble us.
My SILs says that they want to see their moms face always .
I think you should draw a line about your own dignity ....how much rubbish to take and how much is Enough! Think rationally about the situation.Think without being prejudiced and see if you are over Reacting? Because sometimes we are so irritated and have so much of anger towards the situation that even a little normal act feels bigger and bad.
You will be able to take a good call by keeping your daughter in your situation...and think what would be your advise to Her? That will give you strength to take a good decision .As for having only your mother by your side...I don't think that should make you weak. You have to be strong.
Thanks Rainbow1 for suggestion
But, again yesterday we had problems.
I had applied for leave, and thought spending some time with hubby.
But again problem occurred by my sister in laws.
Sis in laws telling that - As you are applied for leave, staying at house that is why we are not coming.
we have been adjusting to you. the same way you should also adjust to us.
Now you tell me even on leaves i should not stay at home.
Hi... How are you doing? Just hope all is sorted and you are doing well now!
Hope everything settled down