My son has just turned 4 years. He is very loving / cute. I am generally out for work and my wife is with him through out the day. In his school they have started to write Alphabets and Numbers. We make him write by holding his hand. we give him practise sheet too, but as soon as we tell him to write he says 'I Don't Know. Please Hold My Hand'. He is not ready to try to write. We know that he can very well recognise Alphabets and 1 to 100 numbers. In school the teachers feel that parents don't practise at home, which is not the case.