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bindusri 2018-12-06 14:33:26


Hi my daughter is 11 yrs old. For the past 1year she is behaving differently . Not showing interest in studies. Not listening to me or my hubby. Totally don€™t show any respect or discipline towards us. I m totally frustrated. Have told many times to her that she should change but when I talk to her she says ya Amma am not good and I will change. But later she behaves same. I m totally broken. I even showed her to child psychologist again Same happens. I Dono when will she change. Kindly advice me how to bring change in her. Tia 

prabhavmom 2018-12-06 16:18:49


hello bindu,

i can understand your frustation. but, please be friendly with your daughter. take her out. main thing is try to find out why she suddenly started behaving like this......i mean did she face any problem outside or in her class or with her friends. try to resolve the issue. 
She might be feeling inferior. to bring her out of that situation as parents you need to have loads of patience as the matter is sensible. 
Befriend with her. if u r working woman , then you need to find time to spend with your daughter.
Don't stress her in studies. just be cool.

Love and patience is the key.
Win your daughters heart.


bindusri 2018-12-06 17:15:18


Hi Praba

I am very friendly with her. Nvr stress her much in studies. Will b ok if she get pass mark. Studies I think secondary to discipline. That€™s my worry. As per my view If a kid is very disciplined it will automatically study.  As u said I take her out n get everything before she asks as she is the only child. Inspite she is dominating us. I m going as per her wish in everything n very patience with her. Anyways will wait for a change. Thanks for ur reply dear. 

appiti 2019-01-16 10:38:11


Sorry if I missed something. I think your emphasis on discipline may be the issue here. Please explore this with love and kindness. "Treat elders with respect because they are older" doesn't fly. Everyone, including kids, must be respected equally, have equal rights and have to be given unbiased attention. Be conversation and agree on rules of behavior for all in the house. This may mean you have to cede some control.

bindusri 2019-01-22 19:15:39


Thank you for your reply. 

Harisha 2019-07-10 02:01:39


Hi my son is 6yrs old.. he is very hyper active.. not sits in class ..he just roams n disturb other kids too ..he takes kids things like pencils n so..he is so agressive,n he throws things from windows.. mostly peak he Crossed now..wn teacher trying to control him n hold his hand..than he beaten teacher..he is Bitting kids...i explained him so many ways with love n in serious also. But no change..he knows what is wrong..he accept mistake'..but again at that time he will do same behaviour... daily complaints from school... how to control him..he is very lovable..he likes all n wants everyone..he shares things. In the same he feels they also want to share with him..but it's not happening... please suggest me to control his hyper active

Ren88 2022-12-11 20:57:12


Hi Harisha..would like to know how you helped your child...I am facing similar issues with my son...taking him for therapy sessions since last one year...


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