child discipline

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appu2000 2010-03-11 20:09:06

 

can anybody give me idea how to make children discipline


blossom 2010-03-11 23:07:02

 

hi

There is no thumb rule to discipline your child. U need to firm and polite at the same time. And since the  kids are individuals with their own likes and dislikes its a tough task to make them do wat u feel is right. Give them a choice and let them choose. This will  make them feel that they are also important . It should be win-win situation for both.May be you have to come 2 step forward and make him come 1 step ....and find a mid way. And you have to show that you understand how miserable he /she is feeling .My daughter is five right now . She is very persistant girl with a mind of her own. She know hows  to get the work done without making other person feel hurt . Amazing to watch her at times. So with her I really have to work hard disciplining her. She asks logic and reasoning for everything.

Hope you feel at ease.........

Thanks

 

 

 

aanchal 2010-03-12 10:22:23

 

mathods of disciplining a child depends on his age..if you can elaborate more about the problem you are facing, i can try to help you better :)

 

aanchal 2010-03-12 10:25:30

 

meanwhile, i will suggest a book : how to talk so kids will listen, how to listen so kids will talk - by faber and mazlish

it is a very easy-to-read, practical and insightful book..i use it as my own parenting bible.

 


blossom 2010-03-12 10:38:26

 

true methods are diiferent for different ages. And the book suggested

really helps at times.

 

Thanks

 

sasha 2010-03-12 12:17:44

 

Hi, I hv a 3yr 6 months old kid. I live in chennai. Can anybody tell me where can i get this book in chennai?. Pls help me out.

 

NJ 2010-03-12 12:30:44

 

Thanks aanchal for the info, I shall definitely try to get this book

sasha, try in Landmark. Mostly you will be able to find it there.

 

aanchal 2010-03-12 13:59:52

 

u will definitely find it at landmark/ crossword/ odessey.

u can also try www.gurgle.com for related articles.

 

 

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