Even my daughter has lots of hair, Hereditary! Try doing these, which I collected from many ppl...
1. Use very little Coconut oil, it will increase the hair growth. Instead use mustard oil. It has a strong smell, so apply only for 5mins and wash with herbal powder with fragrance. This increases the body heat, so you have to balance her diet too..
2. Heard from a North Indian that , once they deliver a girl baby they used to apply mommy's milk all over the baby's body for 3month ..This completely removes the facial & body hair itseems.. But for 2 or 3yr old its too late for us :)
3. I know the tamil names of these common herbs - You can even see growing on waste land!. They are purposefully used by our elders. Turmeric, dried kuppameni leaves ( Indian acalypha), korai kizhangu (Coco grass), Poolan kizhangu (Zedoary) -- grind & mix them with Moong dal powder and apply.
This powder (from Poolan kizhangu) has a strong and soothing smell, will give nice good sleep!
I am going to try milk bread idea immediately! Thanks!