Hi...my kid is 3.5...on the verge of asking the difficult qn..how to handle...any personal experiences / suggestions
Hi Vasanvi,
I can understand your plight. He is quite young to understand anything u explain. you have to just try to divert his mind from the question and try to change the topic for the time being.........I know its difficult,.....................but just try to divert attention.
Umesh
HI VASANVI,
ITS NOT THAT DIFFICULT TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION.ITS JUST HOW GOOD IS YOUR RAPPORT WITH YOUR KID.I SUGGEST YOU FOR NOW TAKE YOUR KID OUT ONE DAY SAY FOR AN ICE CREAM OR ON A BEACH AND EXPLAIN HIM THAT HE IS BEING SENT BY GOD TO YOU. AND TELL HIM THAT SINCE GOD LOVES HIM SO MUCH HE WANTED HIM TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND SINCE HE IS BEING GIVEN TO YOU. AND FOR THEN ONWARDS TEACH HIM TO THANKS GOD EVERYDAY FOR THIS.
KIAH
Hi, Vasanvi,
My son, 5+ asked this question long ago and I told him he came from my tummy. Papa and I wanted him and there he was. That's it. I told all the funny things that happened during my pregnancy- that he drank up all my milk, that he played football in my tummy, that i was too big to pass through a door. It's still fun...
Hey ,
I totally agree with Liza and Kiah ...this is not tough at all . You will actually notice that when you tell him about how small/ big he was , how his hands were so tiny and how he could fit into your tummy and how he kicked .....he will be thrilled! My lill one gets this twinkle in her eyes and says' aur batao na '!!
Enjoy these beautiful moments of bonding :)
Bless u
Vidhi
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