hi aanchal !!
i personally feel u r doing a grt job of guiding parents in all aspects.
i would just like to discusss with u regarding my son who is 4y3months
1.)he is having speech problems as he speaks ,but its not clear partially.some r understandable n some r not.
2.)he is unable to realize stories ,as well some concpts like relationships among our close relatives like that of grandfather,granny,uncle(matrnal)etc.
3)he is keen in viewing educational CD and also learns from it faster,pencil grip is improving,does coloring,writs alphabets but needs help in it,like we have to sit with him for the completion of the whole page,else he does some of it n leaves it incomplete.
4)he repeats whtever we ask him to like he knows names of fruits ,vegetables..etc.
5)he does not answer to teachers even though he knows it, gives only smile.acc to his teachrs he is not able to mix with his frnds properly.to this i feel he tries bt due to lack of clarity in speech he doesn't get response well n setback.
6)i want him to be more expressive in every respect...like other kids who narrates wht have they gone thru in school...etc.
7)also i found a strange behavior of his being obsessed with fan ,every 15-20min his attention diverts towards fan ,if it is off he asks for put it on,else the otherwise.if he is coloring then after 10-15mins he again gets diverted to fan..(this was a example)
i m totally confused as to how to handle him ,he eats,brush,write,colors,speak(partial)..etc by himself,bt still i want him to be more undrstanding like kids of same age
.here i would like to mention that intially he use to get several bouts of bronchitis,n for this he is been staying indoors,..but now it is reduced .we also have another kid who is 5y10m old ,she is fine in all aspects.....but whenever she tries to play with my son she doesn't get response well so gets disappointed,also many times he pats ,kiss her sister n the next momnt he would beat her.
pls help me!!!!!