Iam a working mom and i have a 3.7 yr old daughter.. she is very brilliant and that is my problem now... she understands everything, analyses everything and asks questions for everything.. she will do the things only if she feels that it is right.. she has excellent memory and the things what i know at 30 yrs.. she knows at yrs..
i dont know how to discipline her because most of the times she is not following what iam saying.. rather she does only if it is correct.. if i ask her to wear any dress of my choice, and itf she dont like it , she says amma why cant i wear a dress of my choice!!!she selects all her dresses in the shop..
if i raise my voice or raise my hands( very rarely) in order to discipline her, she becomes very dull and makes me feel that as if i created some sins...
the main problem is she does everything of her own choice and doesnt folloe our words..
1. Is this good or bad?
2. Should i be happy that she is more brilliant than her age or should worry she is not following my words..
3 .this nature will spoil her?
4. if i leave her like this and pamper her, she will become more stubborn in the future?
how to tackle this problem.. Moms pls help me..