my two years son has first ime departed from his father for couple of months and he misses him so much .. i try to keep him involve in diferen activities , but whenever he does something wrong and i tell him in a strict tone he starts crying and keeps on calling his father. i feel very bad but at the same time i cannot allow him to do everythig whatever he wants . please advice me if anyone has gone through the similar situation and how to handle the emotions of your toddler in this kind of scenario?
It is very natural thing, and happens to all kids. It might be the case that your child say the same to his father 'I want to go to mamma or something' , if he says something to stop him, when you are not there.
Kids are very smart, do not feel bad about anything. You have to make him understand that certain things are not acceptable taking your husband in confidence. He should be in your favor if your son does something wrong.
Its a temporary thing, once you make him understand why something should not be done, one day he will realise that for taking decisions, mamma is the right person to consult to . Don't worry and get drowned by your child's emotions, it happens , kids know that you love them so much.