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Parents' responsibilities in improvement of Schools

Jul 27, 2012 5:09 PM Share

As we are deeply saddened by the news that a seven year old Sruthi was killed after falling through the hole in the school bus and being a parent myself couldn’t be convinced by such recklessness from school authorities and others related to the incident.

Whatever action taken against responsible parties will not bring a life back and compensation of any type is not going to be the same as their beloved daughter for the mourning Sruthi’s parents. We as parents are shocked and afraid of the situation prevailing at the schools and other organizations related to upbringing of a child. Many of us are already aware of the current issues related to transport, school maintenance, the way children’s’ are looked after at the school. But we are not taking any action to get the issue addressed because we don’t know how to raise and get our concerns addressed or we believe it is not our responsibility or we think it is impossible to get the issues addressed. By doing so, we are actually becoming the cause for the issues in the first place, because whatever the school management do we tend to accept by not protesting and this gives a free license to the schools to do anything they want. If you want your child to have a safe and enjoyable schooling experience, we as parents need to first let the school know of our concerns. A concern should be addressed to the right person through a letter and loop in the people necessary as well. By doing this, we are half done in addressing the issue. Then we need to follow up persistently and when a genuine issue is being raised and followed up by several parents the school will have no choice but to address them soon or later. If we think that we will be the only one to raise the concern and drop the idea of doing it, the result is going to be that someday one way or the other, it is going to hit us hard. If not for a hole in the bus, there could be something else inside the school that one of our children is going to be impacted. Hence please do not wait for anything or afraid of anyone, after all raising a concern is the only way to let the school know that there is something wrong or need their attention. First thing to do now, is to ask your school management what steps are they taking after the freak accident to prevent any such lapse in their school, after all we as human beings need to learn from other mistakes and not necessarily wait for doing a mistake by our own to learn!

Join me in improving the schools around by letting the school know of the issues!

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RamkumarS (India) Aug 7, 2012 4:00 PM  
Welcome to India! Please continue to write letters / provide feedback / meet the school authorities to highlight the issues and I am sure they will be addressed. I started to do this not just with schools but in other areas too, initially it seems that no one is bothering but upon persistence I could see some improvement. As well, I encourage other parents to start voicing out your concerns and issues, it's the starting point!
 
Tabs (United Kingdom) Aug 3, 2012 2:23 PM  
Hi there, Many thanks for your comments, I found it encouraging, in a week where I have found myself stunned and frustrated at certain things that people seem to accept in the school my boys attend- I thought no one felt like me!
I am new to India and my boys have been accepted in to a well thought of school in Mumbai. Of course there are huge differences in the learning - I accept that, but I have to say I have been appalled at the things that seem common in supposedly a good school, with regard to both the way children are treated plus their general Welfare, which of course forms part of any Health and Safety policy. My particular concern is with the total lack of Hygiene and welfare standards for the children; with kids being ill all over the place and huge numbers absent you would think they would be keen to reduce this. I have heard of small children with fevers of 100 being shut alone in sick rooms, parents not called and several children who have thrown up in class, being allowed to stay in the classroom - where they have continued to throw up all day! One kid came home with someone elses puke on his shirt!
My eldest son informed me that there is no paper in the toilets and the toilets are locked in the mornings anyway. My youngest son was told he couldn't bring wet wipes or hand gel to school.. I find it incredible that in a country where, particularly during the Monsoon, risk of serious infectious Disease is at its highest, there is not some awareness of how wrong this is. to put it into context.In the UK, Where, lets face it, our biggest worry is the Norovius and flu, no child is allowed back into school for 48 hours after they last vomit.
A small child who asks to go home and is made to cry in a classroom? what is going on.. There seems to be a massive lack of knowledge of child development within school generally, and despite some teachers being able teach adequately, a lot of them clearly have no clue about dealing with children..
I was thinking of writing a letter and sending to the parent teacher reps, so that perhaps the school will take notice. I am concious of my being a foreigner that it make look like I am just moaning, but I know many parents are equally outraged. I am not used to sitting around and doing nothing,, so I do find the attitude of some as frustratingly pessimistic. Do parents really not have the power to change how things run? Surely in a society which appears obsessed with saving face and reputation, they need to take parents feedback on board - people just need to feel empowered to put their necks out.. So thank you again. I will now write my letter and ask for a meeting Good Luck